Teens say they are turning to AI for friendship

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Unlocking Word Meanings

Read the following words/expressions found in today’s article.

  1. go-to / ˈgoʊˌtu / (adj.) – describing a person, thing, or place that people choose first because it is very helpful or the best choice for a certain need
    Example:

    This café is my go-to place for coffee because they make it just the way I like it.


  2. sensibly / ˈsen sə bli / (adv.) – in a way that shows good thinking or good judgment
    Example:

    Even though he was upset, he tried to react sensibly and spoke calmly about the issue.


  3. companionship / kəmˈpæn yənˌʃɪp / (n.) – the good feeling that comes from being with and spending time with other people
    Example:

    Nina missed the companionship of her friends after moving to a new city alone.


  4. redefine / ˌriː dɪˈfaɪn / (v.) – to change what something means or how it is seen by people
    Example:

    The internet redefined communication, making talking and sharing instant.


  5. complement / ˈkɒm plə mənt / (v.) – to make something else complete or better when combined with it
    Example:

    In our project team, my writing skills complement John’s design abilities, which helps us create effective presentations.


Article

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For the past couple of years, concerns about cheating at school have dominated the conversation around kids and AI. But artificial intelligence is playing a much larger role in many of their lives. AI, teens say, has become a go-to source for personal advice, emotional support, everyday decision-making and problem-solving.


More than 70% of teens have used AI companions, and half use them regularly, according to a new study from Common Sense Media, a group that studies and advocates for using screens and digital media sensibly.


The study defines AI companions as platforms designed to serve as “digital friends,” like Character.AI or Replika, which can be customized with specific traits or personalities and can offer emotional support, companionship and conversations that can feel human-like. But popular sites like ChatGPT and Claude, which mainly answer questions, are being used in the same way, the researchers say.


As the technology rapidly gets more sophisticated, teenagers and experts worry about AI’s potential to redefine human relationships and exacerbate crises of loneliness and youth mental health.


“AI is always available. It never gets bored with you. It’s never judgmental,” says Ganesh Nair, an 18-year-old in Arkansas. “When you’re talking to AI, you are always right. You’re always interesting. You are always emotionally justified.”


In the Common Sense Media survey, 31% of teens said their conversations with AI companions were “as satisfying or more satisfying” than talking with real friends. Even though half of the teens said they distrust AI’s advice, 33% had discussed serious or important issues with AI instead of real people.


Those findings are worrisome, says Michael Robb, the study’s lead author and head researcher at Common Sense, and should send a warning to parents, teachers and policymakers.


Adolescence is a critical time for developing identity, social skills and independence, Robb said, and AI companions should complement—not replace—real-world interactions.


“If teens are developing social skills on AI platforms where they are constantly being validated, not being challenged, not learning to read social cues or understand somebody else’s perspective, they are not going to be adequately prepared in the real world,” he said.


This article was provided by The Associated Press.


Viewpoint Discussion

Enjoy a discussion with your tutor.

Discussion A

  • Some teens say that talking to AI feels more satisfying than talking to friends. Why do you think some people prefer talking to AI over real people? Discuss.
  • What do you think could be the benefits and problems of making AI the go-to source for personal advice, emotional support, everyday decision-making, and problem-solving? Discuss.

Discussion B

  • One teen said that AI always agrees with him and makes him feel right. Do you think always being agreed with and not being challenged is helpful or harmful, especially for teens? Why? Discuss.
  • Robb warns that AI may leave teens unprepared for the real world by not challenging them. If a teenager doesn’t learn to understand other people’s feelings or social cues, what problems might they have later in their life? Discuss.