Your friend just moved to Japan.

Help your friend get used to life in Japan by explaining Japanese etiquette to him/her.

IN THIS LESSON, YOU WILL

1. Talk to your friend about how his/her life in Japan is going so far.
2. Listen to a voicemail from your friend about a terrible etiquette mistake he/she made.
3. Give your friend advice on how to apologize.

PRACTICE

STEP A EXERCISE

The underlined expressions are close but not quite correct. Correct them.

  1. I don’t believe that one can have too much of a bad thing when eating fruits and veggies.
  2. Josh had his mouth glued to the screen while crossing the street and almost got hit by a car.
  3. When I saw Joey holding hands with Rachel, it hurt my emotions.
  4. People who smoke in public spaces are a pet pig of mine.
  5. It was really nice of you to take a blame for him.

STEP B EXERCISE

Choose the responses that best use the underlined expressions.

1.

Tutor: What’s that noise? Is Mike’s phone ringing?

Student: __________.

  1. Yeah, it is. He always remembers to put his phone on silent mode.
  2. No, I don’t think so. He always puts his phone on silent mode.

 

2.

Tutor: What’s that smell?

Student: __________.

  1. I think it’s the garbage. It really reeks.
  2. Maybe it’s those flowers. They really reek.

 

3.

Tutor: What’s the secret to doing successful business in Asia?

Student: __________.

  1. Learn how to read between the lines and see what people are hinting at.
  2. Learn to read between the lines and take what people say literally.

 

4.

Tutor: Are you always honest?
Student: ________.

  • Well, I’ll sometimes tell a white lie to avoid upsetting people.
  • Absolutely! I believe you should always be direct, so I tell a lot of white lies.

MISSION

Challenge 1

You’re hanging out with your friend who just moved to Japan a few days ago. Find out what he/she thinks of life in Japan so far and give him/her some advice.

Remember?

  • put one's phone on silent/vibrate
  • a pet peeve of someone's
  • have one's eyes glued to the screen
  • less is more
  • too much of a good thing
  • reek

Don't forget to speak your mind!

  • As far as I'm concerned, …
  • That is to say, …
  • Take …, for example.
  • Yes and no.

Challenge 2

It’s a few weeks later. Your friend left you a panicked voicemail message to tell you about a terrible mistake in etiquette that he/she just made at work. Listen to the message.

Remember?

  • a white lie
  • hurt someone's feelings
  • be in the wrong

Challenge 3

After listening to the voicemail, you went to your friend’s apartment. Give him/her advice on how to properly apologize to his/her coworker.

Remember?

  • be in the wrong
  • lose all meaning
  • take the blame
  • a white lie
  • read between the lines
  • hurt someone's feelings

Don't forget to speak your mind!

  • As far as I'm concerned, …
  • That is to say, …
  • Take …, for example.
  • Yes and no.

FEEDBACK

Help your friend get used to life in Japan by explaining Japanese etiquette to him/her.

MISSION ACHIEVEMENT

  • 4
    Very Good

    Could complete the task with ease

  • 3
    Good

    Could complete the task with some clarifications

  • 2
    Fair

    Could complete the task with additional instructions

  • 1
    Poor

    Could somehow complete the task with difficulty

PERSONALIZED FEEDBACK